I recently wrote about my visit to The Comedy Cellar, and how running a successful email marketing program can be similar to doing stand-up comedy. But the performances that night weren't the only part of the evening that reminded me of a valuable lesson:
If you truly want to engage your audience, it helps to know something about them... and be respectful.
After the show, my party and I weren't quite ready to call it an evening and made the decision to check out The Olive Tree, which sits directly above the Comedy Cellar. It's a charming little place, with slate for the tables and bar surfaces, allowing patrons to doodle or write on with supplied chalk. Beers are reasonably priced (by NYC standards) and you never know who is going to walk-in.
After a couple of pints, I see my friend's eyes go wide in the direction of the front door. I turned around to see Tracy Morgan enter with a small group, greet a few other comics and take a seat at a booth. Now, I'm a big fan of Morgan (specifically his work on "30 Rock") but everything about his body language said "don't bother me". So we just observed from afar.
The women in the booth next to ours noticed our excitement at his entrance and --in a thick Brazilian accent-- one asked "Who IS that?" We explained, referencing "30 Rock" and "SNL". Neither seemed to register.
"I'm going to talk to him." she announced, before standing up, walking to his booth and sitting down.
Somewhere short of 2 minutes later, she returned, stating "He is NOT a nice man!" I asked what she meant by that, and she explained it with "Well, he wouldn't even look at me or talk to me." Somehow I avoided laughing and asked her to continue. "I mean, he was rude! Normally, people are very interested in me and want to know all about me, like where I'm from. He didn't ask anything about me." After venting for a while longer, she and the rest of her table left.
Around that time, in walked my favorite comedian, Dave Attel. I knew he was on the bill for the two shows that followed ours, but the lineup wasn't available at the time that I made my reservations. He sat for a while, looking over some papers, then disappeared down the stairs to do his set.
A little while later, Attel returned and sat at a table. I made the decision to walk over and say hello. He was jotting down some notes in a notebook, so I decided to be brief. "Hi. I don't want to interrupt but just wanted to tell you I really enjoy your act. I've seen you 4 times, beginning about 10 years ago in Kansas City for New Years Eve, and every time I laughed until it hurt. I really miss (the Comedy Central show he hosted) 'Insomniac.'"
He looked up, then stood up, put out his hand to shake and said (I'm paraphrasing because I was a bit star struck) "You know, I love hearing that kind of thing. It's good to know that people enjoy the show." He asked a couple questions about where in KC, and if that's where I'm from. Upon finding I am from Indianapolis, he mentioned getting on the Bob & Tom show and that he hoped to make it out this summer. I asked if he'd mind a photo together and he agreed. I was thrilled. Then he asked if we'd seen his set tonight. I explained that we had hoped to, but that the reservations were for the earlier show. To my delight, he said, "Well, come down. I'll have them let you in." We accepted his offer, and were shown to a few seats that are kept in reserve by the bar. His material was great as always, and when the waitress came by she asked "What can I get you? Dave's buying." It was the perfect ending to a perfect evening.
And all I could think of was how completely opposite my encounter was to that of the woman at the next booth earlier. We were both approaching a celebrity that we'd never met, but knowledge and respect made a big difference in how we were received.
I see marketers make a similar mistake all the time. Be respectful. Your subscribers are the celebrities in this case. If they're going to bother to look at you, you're going to need to show that you know who they are. Sending offers that aren't relevant or not establishing (or abusing) their permission is more likely to get you ignored or deleted (or worse.) Delivra offers the tools to collect feedback, analyze your subscriber data and help you send more targeted messages. And we're always glad to help if you have questions.
Kris Dougherty | Operations & Deliverability